Extreme sex is… The truth is that we don’t really know what extreme sex is, because sex is sex and in its extremes there is only the consent of a pleasant and healthy act. And whatever comes out of its extremes, whatever is harmful and unhealthy ceases to be so. By being clearer, neither torture nor disease, sex can only be torturously satisfying.
But neither can we blindfold ourselves and deny reality. Everyone labels certain practices as extreme sex to avoid or identify with them. Let’s get out of that ambivalence: in this list there are some that are sexual games and others that are not. And it’s not just a moral issue.
Extreme sex: 10 sexual practices that may or may not be extreme sex
Did you know that some people get excited about seeing their partner having sex with someone else? The English term “cuckold” means cuckold, that is to say, traditionally he who is deceived by his partner. And “cuckolding” is the act itself, which is used for the scene of being deceived in a consensual manner. In Spanish, you will also find it as “candaulismo”, which we already explained in our article on “exhibicionismo”.
It is a more normal practice than many people think and, in fact, is very much present in the erotic fantasies of women and, above all, men.
Honestly, we don’t see anything unusual in pegging. We do not understand why it is included in the catalogue of extreme sex practices. What’s more, we think that in a short time it will be considered standard sex (if it exists). And not only in lesbian couples, which is already normalized, but also in heterosexual couples.
- Double penetration
Another key word associated with extreme sex:”double penetration”. Many women will be wondering what’s wrong with that wet dream they’ve had so many times. We also wonder… if anyone still thinks that women do not have sexual fantasies with the simultaneous penetration of vagina and anus. Maybe double penetration should be associated with extreme pleasure?
Rimming, analingus or anilingus, the black kiss only has of end what of bad hygiene can have the receiver. We have talked at length about the taboos of anal sex and you know that any sex that includes the anus as an actor will have a bad reputation. From a good cleaning, enjoy depends on the fantasies of everyone…
If we had an obligation to talk about “extreme sex”, fisting would be the best example. Fist “means fist in English, so you can already see where this is going… the line between pleasure and serious sexual injury is very thin.
But fisting can be a desirable practice as long as it is done with extreme sensitivity: hygiene, abundant use of lubricant and a slow pace are key to making it enjoyable and healthy. And of course, lots and lots of excitement.
- Glory Hole
You may have already read or seen this “The Hole of Glory” in movies or series. It is even possible until you have read it in our erotic stories section, where Valérie Tasso included it in Fiereza anal in the “tea room” of Strinfork Square.
The only question to keep in mind with the fantasy of being penetrated by strangers (through a hole in the wall) is that of always: condoms!!
Not only have we just taken a leap from western to eastern terminology, but also from the quicksand of pleasure to more than doubtful sexual practices. The Japanese word bukkake describes the scene of a group of men ejaculating in the face and/or mouth of a woman, or else, serving her cumulative semen (all of them!) in a bowl, cup or glass.
You can criticise us for strongly discouraging it, but Sexually Transmitted Diseases exist, so bukkake is more a Russian roulette than a sexual practice.
Does that ring a bell? Sounding means sounding. Also, inserting a catheter… As supposed sexual practice, it consists of inserting objects into the urethra. In other words, it is based on suffering torture with a high probability of leading to serious infections and tears in the genital-urinary tract.
The urban legend of the 80s is not so urban. Unfortunately, some people consider it a sexual practice to introduce a hamster into a condom and insert it into the rectum. We are not even going to go into detail about the physical dangers that are being run… We are simply against animal abuse. And this is more than mistreatment, torture.
And we also disagree with self-torture: Rosebud is a trick to present the result of what in itself is an abnormal and unpleasant physical condition as something aesthetic (rosebud means “rose bud” and refers to rectal prolapse). We are not going to go into the details of how it is provoked, we are simply referring to the fact that it is a condition that seriously affects the quality of life and therefore very few people want to suffer.
Sex doesn’t exist to suffer. Let’s not make pleasure something extreme or human extremes something pleasant.