The sexual swinging between couples allows to live sexual experiences both exciting and innovative. The sexual life of couples can experience a real rebound with this libertine practice.
But first of all, what is swinging about?
Practically, swinging means to free oneself from social conventions, to “share sexual and erotic pleasures with people outside of your couple“.
Moreover, this practice concerns two couples who exchange their partners for a night of sexual adventures. It can also take place with strangers arousing a great erotic desire and a desire for stealthy intimacy.
The different types of practices of swinging
Several types of practices are generally accepted when it comes to swinging.
Voyeurism and exhibitionism
These two practices punished by the law on public roads are the essence of swinging. The couple can watch other couples make love and let themselves be seen making love. Some couples also like to see their partner enjoying themselves in the arms of another.
This is the most practiced experience for swinger couples. This consists in sharing his foreplays with one or more other couples. Penetration is reserved for its legitimate partner. This practice has the advantage of proposing all the excitations of the swing without putting the couple in danger since the sexual act itself is kept.
This practice involves a threesome, usually a couple and a solo partner of female or male according to the desire of each. When it comes to a solo man, the woman can then enjoy the caresses and penetrations of her two partners or the man can indulge in homosexual inclinations. When it comes to a solo woman, the roles are reversed.
This practice is for a woman to give herself to several men at a time.
This practice is to make love in the presence of several couples, generally partners.
How to engage into swinging?
To engage into swinging, several solutions exist. Most of the time, the first experience takes place in a private mood, on the occasion of an evening with friends or with a person who is outside to the couple. These less intimate practices are most often held in a swingers club, a swinger hammam or a swinger nightclub. Private parties can also be organized in committee a little more open especially for a gang band or an orgy.
Each swingers club follows a simple rule based on mutual respect. When we enter a club, a hammam or a box swinger, we know a priori what it returns but everyone is free to choose how far he wants to go solo or as a couple. Many clubs are frequented mostly by mixed couples who want to enjoy the atmosphere or even an exchange of caresses but who want to keep the penetration for their only partner.
However, everyone must know how to impose its limits so that the fantasy is fully satisfied (lesbian initiation, be licked by an unknown man, suck a sex outside norm …) but also for the psychological integrity to be respected.
Some practical to indulge in swinging
• The basis of exchange is discretion. Do not mention the identity of the people with whom you have had libertine relationships (even with other libertines).
• Protect yourself! Follow this invariable rule: no sex without a condom. Especially in swingers clubs where the swinging of partners can go very fast, so make sure, even in full erotic pleasure, to be always equipped to prevent any risk.
• Have an impeccable hygiene, it is the respect of your partners as well as yours. So we think not to neglect the shower and the change of underwear with the frolics.
• If you are engaged into swinging, the couple you choose will obviously please both of you. Be sure to be on the same wavelength about it, the main goal being that everyone takes pleasure.
• Discussing within your couple remains the priority. Be very attentive to each other’s desires, and preserve the intimacy that connects you emotionally and that you will not offer to any other partner.
• When you are a libertine couple, you should agree on a coded word or gesture that you can use in front of other couples. Therefore, if one of you wants to stop a relationship prematurely, or does not want to hang out with a couple, he can still express it in front of other libertines, unawardly.
• Never insist when you want to see a couple that does not seem to want the same. Even if you like a lot of libertines, most of them only want furtive ephemeral relationships, and do not want to see their sexual partners again afterwards.
With all those advices, all you have to do is to experiment it! We do not become swinger overnight, it is a process that can take a lot of time and must be carefully considered, two.
But if you feel ready, then go ahead without hesitation, you will not be disappointed with the positive impact it may have on your couple.